Constellator Profile

Personal Information

Member Nr.: 428
Family Name: Choy
First Name: Jolene
Gender: Female
Academic Degree & title: Diploma in Mechanical Engineering

Profession

  • Clinical Art Therapist, EMDR Therapist, Licensed NLP Practitioner

Place(s) of Work

Place of work is: local

Place of local Work

City: Kuala Lumpur
State/County: Federal Territory of Kuala Lumpur
Country: Malaysia

Contact

About me

Freetext "about me" in english

I found Family Constellation truly resonate with me and I started to use FC on myself. I saw the shift in my life especially putting myself back in the order of love. I realised how I was affected badly in the family system and my saviour mode to save my mother, and siblings. I was brought up by my single mother and excludes my father in my life. I have seek many therapist who use differently modalities to assist my self sacrificing mode and wound. Nevertheless, I found FC works much deeper and target on the root cause. It’s really fascinating and my perception changed realising I am entangled with my the family and ancestor trauma, pain, being excluded and the secret of the family is not acknowledge and honour. So much of deep work to work out on family system. It really a big transformation to see my love and bonding with my family, children and my parents shifted. I am at peace and balance with my life after FC. Therefore, I would like to serve FC as a practitioner to bring this awareness and assist others. I have started serving constellation with dolls with my clients. The inner satisfaction within me to see this work bring so much of harmony to my clients.

Freetext "about me" in mothertongue

我是来自马来西亚吉隆坡的Jolene。我的职业生涯始于汽车行业的 CAD/CAM、棕榈油行业和铝建筑挤压行业的制图员 6 年。我的热情在 30 多岁时开始发生变化,我学习了艺术治疗课程和 EMDR 创伤课程。我在 EMDR 中与艺术治疗中的儿童和成人一起工作了很多,尤其是在焦虑、压力、抑郁和人际关系问题上。 2021年,我认识了Family Constellation,并对它产生了好奇。因此,我在吉隆坡报名参加了 Monika Wyss 的基础课程。我对 FC 的兴趣大大增加,我决定成为 FC Practitioner 来指导我的客户治愈他们的家庭系统。 我发现 Family Constellation 真正引起了我的共鸣,我开始在自己身上使用 FC。我看到了我生活中的转变,尤其是让自己回到了爱的秩序中。我意识到我在家庭系统和拯救我母亲和兄弟姐妹的救世主模式中受到了严重影响。我是由单身母亲带大的,在我的生活中排斥父亲。我已经寻找许多治疗师,他们使用不同的方式来帮助我的自我牺牲方式和伤口。尽管如此,我发现 FC 的工作更深入,并针对根本原因。这真的很迷人,我的看法发生了变化,意识到我与我的家庭和祖先的创伤、痛苦、被排斥纠缠在一起,家庭的秘密不是承认和荣誉。在家庭系统上需要做很多深入的工作。看到我与家人、孩子和父母的爱和纽带发生了转变,这真是一个巨大的转变。 FC 之后我的生活平静而平衡。

Working Language(s)

English

Type of Constellation Work

  • Systemic / Family Constellations

Area of Constellation Work

Works as a Trainer for Costallation work: No